One of the things we have been experimenting with in our FLR is enforced chastity. During sex I have always tried to be focussed on my Wife's pleasure first and foremost and cunnilingus has always been the focus of our our lovemaking. In early we decided to experiment with enforced chastity and to that end bought a stainless steel cage. For me, this has been transformational. Whilst the device is not foolproof in the sense that I can still climax when locked - but as I am unable to stroke myself it is, in effect, a ruined orgasm it has had a wonderful effect on me. I no longer masturbate, and during sex I am constantly reminded that the only orgasm I need concern myself with is my Wife's.
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Women need at least 20 minutes but usually 40 or more. After years in the 5 to 10 minute zone, Tantra taught me how to last as long as we both want. My first Tantric Sex book, Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery , laid out the complete program of solo exercises for men. But neither of you can make it happen by yourself. You have to learn how to share the power so you both get what you need. It takes teamwork and partnership. You both have to be more conscious of what you and your lover are feeling in each moment.
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Why I no longer masturbate Submitted by emerson on Thu, Masturbation helped me go to sleep. It made me feel less like bothering my wife for sex she didn't want to have you know, a woman with a weaker sex drive wink wink.
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